{"id":249,"date":"2010-05-14T15:06:12","date_gmt":"2010-05-14T20:06:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/3.136.9.181\/?p=249"},"modified":"2010-05-14T15:06:12","modified_gmt":"2010-05-14T20:06:12","slug":"my-favorite-malkavian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vaygh.com\/?p=249","title":{"rendered":"My Favorite Malkavian"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yesterday, at work, I was listening to the song Fade to Black<\/a>\u00a0by Metallica and nearly broke down in tears. That song reminds me of my friend, Jamy Schumm<\/a>, who died nearly ten years ago. I don’t know exactly why this particular day, and this particular listening, choked me up; I’ve heard that song several times in the past decade. Still, there I was, sitting at my desk, trying to stifle a sob.<\/p>\n

Jamy died in November of 2000, shortly after his 28th birthday. I remember there was some\u00a0controversy surrounding\u00a0his death when it happened. Some people thought he fell; some thought he was pushed; the official\u00a0verdict was that he jumped from a parking garage<\/a> in downtown Rockford. How he died does not change the fact that he’s gone, however. It also does not change how much I miss him.<\/p>\n

I will not pretend that Jamy and I were very close friends. Many people knew him far better than I. Many people\u00a0suffered his loss more profoundly than I. Jamy’s death did, however, affect me deeply. I was twenty years old when Jamy died. I thought, in some unconscious way, that I would live forever: that everyone I knew would live eternally. Jamy was among those everliving fixtures of my universe. We gamed together, and hung out at That One Place<\/a> (erstwhile coffee shop extraordinaire) together. We shared laughs, and tried to solve the world’s problems, as twenty-somethings oft do, over a cup of Joe.<\/p>\n

I really started getting to know Jamy when we were players in the Vampire: the Masquerade<\/a> LARP<\/a> held weekly at That One Place. Jamy was one of the core players in that game. In fact, he’s one of the finest role-players I’ve ever had the pleasure of gaming with. His Malkavian<\/a> character was so well-played and central to that game, I can’t even remember his name: (though there were other Malks in the game) we always just called him “The<\/span> Malkavian.” I don’t know if it was a true gift for drama or his own inner torment, but his characterization of insanity was honestly disturbing to watch at times. I think it was a bit of both.<\/p>\n

I wish that I would have had the chance to get to know Jamy better. I bet he was even cooler than I thought.\u00a0I wish that Jamy knew how many people truly cared for him. I bet he’d still be here if he did. I wish that he were still here to meet my daughter. I bet he would’ve been great with kids. I wish he could’ve been at my wedding. I bet his costume for the reception would’ve been awesome.<\/p>\n

But wishes don’t bring people back from the dead, except in movies and games. Instead, I’ll wish that everyone who knew Jamy, even in passing, would keep his memory alive. It sounds clich\u00e9, but it’s true: in your heart, he’ll never die. If you knew Jamy Schumm and want to share a story, please do. I’ll keep the comments on this post open forever. It’s the least\u00a0I can do.
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\nRest in peace, my favorite Malkavian. You are sorely missed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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